As part of Foster Care Fortnight 2026 and this year’s theme, “This is Fostering”, we are sharing stories that show the many different people who help make fostering what it is.
E’s nomination is a reminder that fostering does not only involve foster carers. It can also shape the lives of the children already within a family, who learn to share their home, their time, and sometimes the things that matter most to them.
For E, one of those things is football.
“E not only shares his home, parents and toys but something that is very special to him, his football.”
E knew how much S loved football. Although S already attended his own weekly football training, E invited him to come along and join in with his too.
It was a simple invitation, but one that meant a great deal. Through football, E gave S support, encouragement and the chance to have fun together.
“E has given S his support, encouragement and a chance to have fun together.”
That support has helped S grow in confidence, not only on the football pitch, but within the family too. Their relationship as foster brothers has strengthened through something they both enjoy, creating a shared space where S could feel included and accepted.
“Overall its increased S confidence on the football pitch but also has part of our family and their relationship as a foster brother.”
What stands out most in E’s nomination is how naturally he includes the children who come into his family’s home. He does not treat fostering as something separate or unusual. To him, the children are simply part of the family.
“What’s so special is E doesn’t think about ‘fostering’. He includes the children like they have always been here. No judgement, no difference. A brother from day one.”
E once described fostering as “a sleepover that never ends.” It is a phrase that says a lot about the way he sees it. Not as a formal role or responsibility, but as a way of welcoming someone in and making space for them.
“E has been fostering since he was 5 years old, it’s not easy sharing everything. But he does this with grace and empathy.”
Fostering is often spoken about through the role of adults, but children like E play an important part too. Their kindness, patience and willingness to include others can help children feel welcome from the very beginning.
E’s story is a reminder that fostering is built through everyday acts of inclusion: sharing a football session, offering encouragement, making someone feel like a brother, and showing up with kindness.
“We are so very proud of the young man you are but mostly of your big heart.”
If this story has inspired you to learn more about fostering, we would love to hear from you.
Fostering can make a life-changing difference for children and young people, offering safety, stability and a place to feel part of a family.
There are many different ways to foster, and our team is here to talk you through what it could look like for you.
Get in touch with us through our enquiry form here:
https://thecft.org.uk/enquire-today/
